Downsizing

Graduation season is here and parents of those graduates are starting to think about what happens next! It’s a crazy time of life because you are likely caring for almost adult children and aging parents at the same time. There is no time like the present to DOWNSIZE. It may be just the child’s bedroom or it may be your parents whole house, but the process can be difficult and stressful. The last thing you want is to have to do it in a hurry, making decisions you’ll regret later. I suggest starting way before you actually have to. Here are 5 tips that can help!

Clarify your Goals – What do you want to accomplish in the next 10 years? As the kids are off to live their life, it could be opening doors for your life that you hadn’t thought about. If you are retiring, there could be something that you always wanted to accomplish that you finally have time to work toward. Start with your WHY! Not sure what I mean by that or have never dug in to you Why? Read the book Start with Why by Simon Sinek! I went through the process about 7 years ago and realized that my Why is to HELP people. Every decision I make in my business is filtered through that why, so if there is a decision to be made I ask “will it help people?”. Maybe your Why is to see the world! That would require a lot of time and planning and probably a lot less stuff in your home!

Declutter – Go room by room and take inventory. Make a bin for Donate, Sell or Toss. Remember all the fuss years ago about the Marie Kondo method… “If it doesn’t bring you joy!” If you didn’t do that when it was trending, this is a great time to do it. And if you did, I bet you need to do it again! It is amazing the amount of stuff we accumulate in a year. Don’t be afraid to do it once or twice a year. This is the most time consuming part, so start early. You may need to hire a professional. I have a few companies that will come do this for you, determining if there are valuable things for an estate sale or what can just get trashed. My favorite right now is BlueStar Move Management. I have had tons of people ask me for a company like this and I finally found one!

Evaluate Financial Position – Finances will definitely change at this stage of life, so take some time to speak to your financial person or review your budget. Remember that equity in your home can be turned into cash if there are college bills to pay or properties to buy, especially now with all the changes to college loans. In past experiences I have used a couple of strategies that may work for you. If you are looking to move a parent and downsize their home, consider using the equity in their current home to purchase or put a downpayment on the new one. Once the original home sells everything will be paid off at closing. If you are looking for a space to move you college kid, considering using the equity in your own home to buy or put a down payment on that property. If you choose to purchase that property outright, it will be an investment property and require a 20% downpayment, but if you have leases signed or commitments from tenants to pay rent, it will likely not count on your own Debt To Income (DTI) ratio. There are also loan products available called bridge loans, where the lender will help if you have to buy then sell a property.

Evaluate Housing Options – If you have a kid on their way to college or the real world, you could potentially turn their need for housing into your first investment property! Don’t allow them to pay rent to someone else when they, and their friends, could pay rent to you. I even like the idea of letting that child “buy” the home from you once they have finished school and have a job. Whether they choose to live in it, sell it, or rent it out, they can start their adult life with the one thing that truly creates financial mobility, home ownership. There are many options as we retire for downsized housing that can easily fit into those goals you clarified earlier. We recently moved my mother into a condo at the lake. It is a big switch from her house of 50 years in the middle of Charlotte on almost an acre of land, but she has grown to really love it. It took us about 3 months to get her completely moved in and downsized. We purchased the condo first so she could take her time with a loan that I “co-signed” for. Once we sold her house in Charlotte we simply paid off the loan and the HELOC money we had borrowed to help make that transition.

Condominiums can be a great choice for Graduates or Retires because of the small space, smaller price point, and amenities the community offers. The can also turn into great rental properties for short-term or long-term rentals, but make sure to read the association documents carefully.

Execute – Make a schedule to achieve those goals. Find help and assistance where needed. You may need to hire movers, contractors, a real estate agent, or a home management company. There are lots of options! I talk to familys all the time that are trying to sell properties once the family member is deceased. They are left with an entire home full of belongings that they do not know what to do with. These Move Management companies can come in and sort through to see if an estate sale would be worth it, or what items should just get junked or donated. I recently spoke to a woman who was doing her best to go through and get rid of as many things as possible before that happened to her children. It may be as simple as a detailed outline in a will that gives every member of the family the responsibility of the items. Something that specific would need to be revised in a timely manner.

At the end of the day we can’t all be like my Aunt Peggy who sold all of her worldly possessions except for 1 chair, a plate, and a fork to travel the world in her RV, but I do think we could eliminate the clutter around us in order to eliminate some of the clutter in our lives. Starting with a blank slate in the big changes of our life can be scary so seek some help. Whether you are cleaning out a graduates bedroom to fill their dorm or making a spare bed room, or downsizing a whole home into a condo in retirement, it will take Goals, Help, and a Plan!

First Time Home Buyers

There is a common misconception that FHA loans were created to service first time home buyers. Maybe original they were, but now anyone with a certain credit score can get an FHA loan , and since they are federally serviced, they usually have lower interest rates, though not by much, and much lower down payment requirements. BUT There are programs out there specifically designed to help first time home buyers in this market of higher rates and lower consumer confidence. Lenders are offering amazing products to pull buyers into the market! Here are a few tips and tricks to finding the best loan deal out there for your specific needs.

First and foremost, shop around! Home loan products are just like homes…there are plenty out there for you to choose from! You can choose to use a bank that you have a relationship with, a new bank, or a mortgage broker. Every single one of them will have different programs and qualifications. I always suggest my clients go to a bank and a broker to see what their options are. Brokers work with 20 or so lenders, so even 2 different brokers will have 40 different products. Banks have very specific programs for the clientele that they service so places like credit unions offer bonuses for members but all banks have programs privately funded to reach specific groups of people. I have built a business around relationships and I work really hard to stay up with the times by meeting with those people and talking shop so I can refer my clients to a lender that can meet their needs.


UNDER CONTRACT on this adorable home with my first time home buyers who have been able to secure over $70,000 in grant money to purchase! Their down payment in covered; their closing costs are covered; and a portion will go toward the principle to bring their payment down!


Have a list of options or requirements for the loan officer. What is important to you?

Downpayment – 0% – 20% The more you put down now the less you have to pay interest on over the course of the loan. But if you don’t have the cash there are ways to get mortgage with 0 – 3% down.

Interest Rate – The interest rate is set, but usually as just a starting point. Based on your credit score, the individual lender can make adjustments. One offer now from many lenders are called “buy-downs”, where the lender will buy down the interest rate for the first 1, 2, or 3 years of the loan. There are a huge assortment of these type of offers in the market so ask for them and then make sure you understand it!

Term of the Loan – Traditionally mortgages are 15 and 30 years, but there are some variations now. I recently saw a loan for 40 years that allowed for lower monthly payments. There are also ARM loans out now that are regaining popularity where they offer a lower interest rate for the first 5, 6, 7 years of the loan, but you must refinance before or take the market rate at the end of that term.

Grant Money – This is where it gets interesting and profitable! There are programs out there from the federal government, state government, local governemnts, and even private organization like banks and companys that offer sums of money to use as a gift towards the loan. For example, the state of NC has a $17,500 grant for borrowers that make 80% or less of the average median income and are first time home buyers. If a lender can add that to their own options, you can stack money on top of money to get $50 – $70,000 worth of grants applied to the loan. All of those programs have requirements and specifics such as a finacial literacy class or you have to stay in the home for 7 years so make sure you understand.


Here’s what to do:

  • Interview the lender! Ask for these options. Tell them what you’re looking for and see what they have to offer. Don’t just fill out the application first without having a conversation about what you want.
  • Ask for a soft pull! Allow them to go through your information and collect real hard numbers on what they can offer. This would mean filling out the application, but a soft pull doesn’t affect your credit score. If they ask you to pay for a credit report, that is likely not a soft pull.
  • Stay in touch! Continue to work with the lender on each individual property that you find when you become serious about making an offer. You would hate for the location or type of property to throw you out of any of that money you thought you were going to save.

New Construction isn’t happening so much from the big builders anymore. I am finding more new construction from small local builders with 3 or 4 units at a time. The quality is just as good, if not better, and the offerings are better since most big builders have gone to townhomes instead of single family homes.

A note about new construction…if you are building a home with a builder in a neighborhood or on your own land, STILL do all of these things. Yes, the builders in-house lender will offer a little money back to get your business (usually 4 or 5 thousand), but many lenders will match that or be able to use other programs to beat that. The builder may not choose to use any of those programs since they are already offering an incentive. And then you have a lender that is on your side and not the side of the builder, much like the agent sitting in that model home is employed by the builder and has no allegiance to you.

Your home is the biggest financial decision that you will make, no matter how many times in your life you will make it so it reserves the right to be complicated and researched and poured over. You should have to jump through hoops to borrow hundreds of thousands of dollars with just a signature promising to repay it. Loose lending laws are what caused the financial crash we saw in 2008. It should be hard to make that type of financial decision. BUT IT IS NOT IMPOSSIBLE! A young lady said to me recently, “I’ll never be able to buy a house.” That is not at all true! You can, but you must do the work, whether that means raising your credit score, or researching options available to your type of person, or looking for houses in a particular area or at a particular price point. It shouldn’t be easy! But it also should not be impossible!

What is Equity and How do I Get It?

I think this is a hard concept for people to understand. I have had to explain it a few times to new home owners. The good news is that I have seen a few examples lately of instant equity when people are purchasing homes, which is great news when buyers feel like the interest rates are high. And just like any other market anomaly, this too shall pass. So if you are considering buying, here’s an idea of how this will help you! I wanted to crunch some numbers and show how this benefits buyers in this market.

Let me give you a couple of stories of what I have seen in the market.

One recent buyer in the Mint Hill, NC area purchased a home for $374,900. The appraisal came back at $395,000!

Another buyer recently went under contract on a property for $239, 500 in the Derita area of Charlotte, NC. That appraisal came in at an $11,000 increase for instant equity.

This is happening because of exactly what buyers were hoping for…prices are coming down! There has been so little movement in the market during the past winter months that sellers are dropping prices left and right. You want a deal (as everyone seems to), buy in January or February. The prices of the homes are adjusting, but the appraisals have not caught up. Appraisers generally look at sales for the last 3-6 months. If little inventory is moving, the appraiser only sees the inflated prices that existed when the market was busy. I also look at those same numbers when helping sellers determine a list price, but I use market conditions to guide my clients. Busier market = higher list price. Appraisals do not include market conditions or fluctuations.

But what does that mean for my buyers? It’s like they walk into ownership of that property with money saved in the bank. It is not money that they can actually use. It’s a sort of credit. It increased the value of the home, but they are still paying the mortgage at the list price they agreed to. A homeowner can borrow against the equity in the home through a Home Equity Line of Credit (HELOC) or Home Equity Loan. Obviously, it is a loan of some sort and monthly payments are required and there is a fee for borrowing in the interest rate, but it can help homeowners do repairs or make improvements.

For folks who have owned your home for 10 or more years (the average time that people choose to sell is 11 years) you probably have a considerable amount of money in equity in the home. I often advise clients to use that equity to improve their home before they sale. If possible, borrow against that equity to make necessary adjustment to the condition or style of the home to get the absolute highest market value out of your home. We can list it sometimes in a completely different market bracket. Obviously we will sit down and compare the cost of the renovation with the increase in the value of the house and how close those numbers may be before making that decision. If you have to pay $10K for the reno and you’re only going to increase the list price by $10K, like any other investment, it may not be worth the work and time for the renovation. At closing the HELOC will be paid by the attorney so, in some cases, you aren’t even making a payment or paying the interest.

I look at equity a lot like I look at net worth. It’s kinda like fake money. It’s not something that you have liquid in the bank. It requires a little bit of work to get the value out of something. You have to sell an asset to make it liquid. But I do think equity is a lot easier to use than other investments. I amy be a little bias, thought, since real estate is literally what I do!